Welcome

Ready for something real?

For people who are serious about finding love. Short screens, most of them one tap each, about five minutes. No ID, no selfie, and nothing you answer is lost if you step away.

1 of 10 Hello

Pick one or more. You can change it later in your profile.

2 of 10 What you want

Say it plainly. People are matched on this.

Everyone here is 18 or over. It cannot be changed later, and matching runs on your age.

3 of 10 Where you are

Type the town or area you live in. Distance is a real filter here, so the closer this is the better your matches.

4 of 10 Your card

We crop it to a neat portrait, take out the location tags your camera adds, and shrink it to under 150 KB so it loads fast on any network. With no picture on your card yet, this one becomes it, and you can take it off any time from Photos.

Two honest sentences get more answers than any photo.

5 of 10 Your life now

Pick up to 3, or none, and tap Next. It moves people in the same place as you up your stack.

6 of 10 What you are into

Shared interests are where the first conversation starts.

7 of 10 Your character

People see these instead of your face, and they do the matching, so one from each family. You can change them later.

Character How you are with people

Work and money Where you are with work

Sport What you do with your body

Into What you spend free time on

Screen What you watch

Romance How affectionate you are

8 of 10 The questions

Pick one, then Next. These do the actual matching. Where a question is a private one, "Rather not say" is one of the choices.

0 of 21 answered

The essentials Status and children. The answers that end things early.

1 of 21Answered Are you single right now?
2 of 21Answered Do you already have children?
3 of 21Answered Do you want children, or more children?
4 of 21Answered Do you go for people like you, or your opposite?

Faith Your church or faith, and how much it shapes your week.

5 of 21Answered What is your faith?
6 of 21Answered How big a part does faith play in your life?

Day to day Drinking, smoking and food. Small things that still cause arguments.

7 of 21Answered Do you smoke or chew? Cigarettes, shisha, vapes and khat all count.
8 of 21Answered Do you drink alcohol?
9 of 21Answered Is there anything you do not eat?

Family and custom Roles and family. How your home would actually run.

10 of 21Answered How do you see roles in a marriage?
11 of 21Answered How involved should parents and family be in your marriage?
12 of 21Answered Once married, how should helping parents and siblings with money work?

Work and money What you do and how you would share money. Income is never shown.

13 of 21Answered How far did you go in school?
14 of 21Answered What do you do for work right now?
15 of 21Answered How would you describe your money situation?

Never shown to anyone as a figure. Used only to rank, and only if you answer.

16 of 21Answered How would you run money in a marriage?

Where you will live City, home town or another country, and whether you would move.

17 of 21Answered Where do you see yourself settling down?
18 of 21Answered Would you move to another town or region for the right person?

Looks Only ever used to rank, never to hide anyone.

19 of 21Answered How tall are you, standing next to a door?

A standard door is about 2.1 m, or 7 ft. Pick the one that looks most like you standing next to it; the dashed line is the top of the head.

20 of 21Answered How would you describe your body?
21 of 21Answered What is your hair like?

9 of 10 Your account

A wide first list, so your cards have a match score from the start. You can change every line of it later.

10 of 10 Last one

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